He communicates with me daily, mostly through text message, to which I always respond warmly.My question: We’re texting everyday, but he’ll wait FOREVER, (in actuality, 5-7 days) before asking to see me again. Is this a downside of dating a typical beta (i.e., no initiative) or is he just not that interested in me?” Tell Him Exactly How You Feel Inside You don’t have to ask about his feelings because that might feel invasive to him, but you can and should tell him about yours.
Another modern concept, “bread-crumbing” is the despicable practice of basically messing with someone by throwing down little bread crumbs of (digital) interest, without ever consummating an actual “meet.” Just as modern life makes it easy to connect, it is also easier to disconnect, with few consequences.
Stop listening to all that advice telling you to play it cool...
Are you in the early stages of dating a man and wondering if he is as serious about you and you are about him?
Putting the man in front of your feelings and needs may seem like the right thing to do at the beginning of a relationship (hey, don’t we all have irrational fears that aren’t attractive? Just because you don’t want to feel insecure, needy, uncomfortable and scared, doesn’t mean that you aren’t feeling that way.
And chances are—if you feel these feelings in your budding relationship, he can sense them.